hi, saw you got an LJ from FA. If you are looking for a place to rant (of course, semi-literately), there is the goodship debate community on LJ, formed when we had too much to do with feathered people but which most of the founders aren't using that much anymore because, well, most of us gave up. Feel free to contact Gilraean (lady Vorkosigan) about getting on the list, though she's been busy lately.